Jonard 463 #26 Posted May 24, 2018 I always tell my patients to ask yourself how risky is driving or crossing the road? Make the same calculation that people make about diseases. Realise more mongers died in bangkok from a car accident than mongers who got Hiv from blowing someone. Risk of injury during a ski trip is higher than catching either Hiv, G or Syfillis from oral sex. And never ever forget one ski trip with a msm encounter could leave you paralysed with hiv for the rest of your life. You can win the negative lottery, but should you adapt your lifestyle? 2 Geronimo42 and Boomerang reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kalitelo 18 #27 Posted January 10 Obviously v late to this, but this is v helpful - thanks all. I've had a couple of mouth ulcers break out in the last few days, and I'm suddenly very wary of giving unprotected oral. Sounds like I'm best to let them heal and/or give covered head. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lblover1132 107 #28 Posted January 12 I’m nervous about coming back to Bangkok now. I am very much into giving oral. I’ll take a load in the mouth but never swallow. I do have recessed gums, but do not bleed often. I think I general inflammation of the gums, probably because I never floss. I enjoy giving head to ladyboys more than fucking them. So if my main activity of enjoyment is riskier than I always thought, making the trip might not be worth it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bwana_LB 2,013 #29 Posted January 12 On 1/9/2024 at 9:13 PM, Kalitelo said: Obviously v late to this, but this is v helpful - thanks all. I've had a couple of mouth ulcers break out in the last few days, and I'm suddenly very wary of giving unprotected oral. Sounds like I'm best to let them heal and/or give covered head. Yes, let them heal. The ulcers are a pathway for infections of many sorts (not just HIV) to enter your system. Also, the ulcers themselves MAY reflect an active case of HPV. Most HPV cases will clear on their own and are not dangerous, but some types of HPV are precancerous. 1 Kalitelo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wagonner 43 #30 Posted January 13 17 hours ago, lblover1132 said: I’m nervous about coming back to Bangkok now. I am very much into giving oral. I’ll take a load in the mouth but never swallow. I do have recessed gums, but do not bleed often. I think I general inflammation of the gums, probably because I never floss. I enjoy giving head to ladyboys more than fucking them. So if my main activity of enjoyment is riskier than I always thought, making the trip might not be worth it. Is giving a covered blow job something that you would consider? I’m sure the recipient would not mind, as you are providing the service, and you could bring condoms to your taste? 1 Kalitelo reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lblover1132 107 #31 Posted January 14 18 hours ago, Wagonner said: Is giving a covered blow job something that you would consider? I’m sure the recipient would not mind, as you are providing the service, and you could bring condoms to your taste? I’ve never done it with a condom, and not really interested. 1 eugenio reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Danum99 440 #32 Posted January 14 47 minutes ago, lblover1132 said: I’ve never done it with a condom, and not really interested. I’d have to agree even though if might be risky. But I can’t imagine doing it with a condom. dan 1 eugenio reacted to this Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wagonner 43 #33 Posted January 14 6 hours ago, Danum99 said: I’d have to agree even though if might be risky. But I can’t imagine doing it with a condom. dan Never try, never know Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eugenio 155 #34 Posted January 16 Covered blowjobs are idiotic. Why even bother. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wagonner 43 #35 Posted January 17 On 1/16/2024 at 1:44 AM, eugenio said: Covered blowjobs are idiotic. Why even bother. If the perceived risk of not having protection is, in your mind, unacceptable and the only other alternative you can think of is abstinence which is intolerable. Not everyone is born immune. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites